As my husband pitifully lay curled up in the bed this week with a bad stomach virus, I found myself spraying Lysol on every surface he might have possibly touched, and I started carrying around a bottle of hand sanitizer. Needless to say, I wasn't a very good nurse because I was so afraid of getting the virus myself. My avoidance of his germs started to make me think about sin.
What if we avoided sin like we do germs and took the same precautions to guard ourselves from becoming infected by it? Think about that as you go through your day.
In what areas of your life could you use a little Lysol disinfecting spray? Maybe you have habits of which God would not approve that you need to overcome. Maybe you need to prioritize and spend more time reading your Bible than watching television. Maybe you should stop gossiping and repeating everything you read on Facebook. Maybe you should spend more time talking about God than arguing about football.
In what ways could you keep sin at arms length and not let it touch you? Maybe you could not listen to the dirty jokes your coworkers laugh about in the breakroom. Maybe you can remove the Facebook friends whose status updates fill your newsfeed with ugly language. Maybe you can change the channel or turn off the television when the show becomes violent or graphic. If you wouldn't want your kids to watch it, chances are that you shouldn't watch it either.
Sin - which is everywhere - is a virus that will infect and destroy your life, but you have to still live your life. You need to protect yourself and your family from this sin virus, but that doesn't mean keeping your family locked away in a clean room forever. In John 17: 15-19, Jesus prayed:
15 My prayer is NOT that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. 16 They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. 17 Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth. 18 As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world. 19 For them I sanctify myself, that they too may be truly sanctified.
Breaking Out the Bat on Bad Situations
Bad things happen. They happen when we least expect it. They happen to good people. They happen to bad people, young people, old people. They happen whether we're ready to face them or not. Rest assured, when you're facing tough circumstances, you are not facing them alone. Noah faced the great flood. Moses faced the desert. The same God who guided them will guide you through whatever your situation.
No matter how bad your situation is, you will get through it. The Bible tells us in Isaiah 43:2-3, "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the LORD your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior."
When you get to the other side of your desert, what are you going to say when you look back at how you handled the journey? From personal experience, I know how bad it feels to look back and realize how differently things could have been if my attitude had been different. Don't be like me and look back wishing you could have reacted differently. When you face that desert or that flood, don't frown. Smile. When you look back, you'll be proud of yourself for not only making it through the hard times, but also for how you walked while in their midst.
Here are a few quotes of encouragement to remember when you're facing difficulties life throws your way:
The robbed that smiles, steals something from the thief. ~William Shakespeare, Othello
When written in Chinese the word "crisis" is composed of two characters - one represents danger and the other represents opportunity. ~John F. Kennedy, address, 12 April 1959
The soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears. ~John Vance Cheney
God uses suffering as a whetstone, to make men sharp with. ~Henry Ward Beecher
And best of all:
I have heard there are troubles of more than one kind.
Some come from ahead and some come from behind.
But I've bought a big bat. I'm all ready you see.
Now my troubles are going to have troubles with me!~Dr. Seuss
No matter how bad your situation is, you will get through it. The Bible tells us in Isaiah 43:2-3, "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the LORD your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior."
When you get to the other side of your desert, what are you going to say when you look back at how you handled the journey? From personal experience, I know how bad it feels to look back and realize how differently things could have been if my attitude had been different. Don't be like me and look back wishing you could have reacted differently. When you face that desert or that flood, don't frown. Smile. When you look back, you'll be proud of yourself for not only making it through the hard times, but also for how you walked while in their midst.
Here are a few quotes of encouragement to remember when you're facing difficulties life throws your way:
The robbed that smiles, steals something from the thief. ~William Shakespeare, Othello
When written in Chinese the word "crisis" is composed of two characters - one represents danger and the other represents opportunity. ~John F. Kennedy, address, 12 April 1959
The soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears. ~John Vance Cheney
God uses suffering as a whetstone, to make men sharp with. ~Henry Ward Beecher
And best of all:
I have heard there are troubles of more than one kind.
Some come from ahead and some come from behind.
But I've bought a big bat. I'm all ready you see.
Now my troubles are going to have troubles with me!~Dr. Seuss
Book Update!
I am making so much progress on my first book!!
I am actually working on three writing projects at one time: my blog (as you already know), a book of devotionals, and a Christian fiction novel. While at first I was concerned that three writing projects at once would be difficult, I've found that the varied subjects keep me from getting writer's block! If I'm stuck on one topic, I just work on another.
I plan to publish the book of devotions in the spring. It will be the first in a series titled This Is My Story! This Is My Song! This first book, Overcoming the Old Man, Discovering the New, is based on Ephesians 4:17-31 and focuses on the lyrics of several hymns, such as "Love Lifted Me" and "Redeemed, How I Love to Proclaim It." Thanks to my talented brother, there will also be a CD of these hymns to accompany the book!
Unfortunately, because of copyrights, I will not be posting any of this book on my blog. I do, however, plan to make it available as an eBook as soon as possible!
I am actually working on three writing projects at one time: my blog (as you already know), a book of devotionals, and a Christian fiction novel. While at first I was concerned that three writing projects at once would be difficult, I've found that the varied subjects keep me from getting writer's block! If I'm stuck on one topic, I just work on another.
I plan to publish the book of devotions in the spring. It will be the first in a series titled This Is My Story! This Is My Song! This first book, Overcoming the Old Man, Discovering the New, is based on Ephesians 4:17-31 and focuses on the lyrics of several hymns, such as "Love Lifted Me" and "Redeemed, How I Love to Proclaim It." Thanks to my talented brother, there will also be a CD of these hymns to accompany the book!
Unfortunately, because of copyrights, I will not be posting any of this book on my blog. I do, however, plan to make it available as an eBook as soon as possible!
Resolutions
Usually, my new year's resolutions tend to be pretty self-centered, like to lose weight, eat healthier, and exercise regularly. I'm not going to make those self-centered resolutions this year. Yes, I do hope to lose about 10 pounds before swimsuit season rolls back around, but that isn't a top priority so I'm not counting it as a resolution. My husband and I are making financial goals for 2012, but I'm not counting those as resolutions either.
This year, my resolution is to uphold Philippians 2:3, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves." Rather than focusing on my own vanity (my weight) and ambition (our finances), I want to build closer relationships with my husband, my family, my friends, and my Savior. Philippians 2:1-8 says:
1 Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2 then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. 3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:
6 Who, being in very nature[a] God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
7 rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature[b] of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
8 And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
by becoming obedient to death—
even death on a cross!
What are your resolutions for 2012? Are they focused on you or on others? Remember what resolutions are most important: keep our eyes on "things that are nobler," draw closer to Jesus, "heed what He sayeth, do what He willeth" to abide in His kingdom day by day.
I AM RESOLVED
I am resolved no longer to linger,
Charmed by the world’s delight,
Things that are higher, things that are nobler,
These have allured my sight.
I am resolved to follow the Savior,
Faithful and true each day;
Heed what He sayeth, do what He willeth,
He is the living Way.
I am resolved to enter the kingdom
Leaving the paths of sin;
Friends may oppose me, foes may beset me,
Still will I enter in.
I am resolved, and who will go with me?
Come, friends, without delay,
Taught by the Bible, led by the Spirit,
We’ll walk the heav’nly way.
http://www.cyberhymnal.org/htm/i/a/iamresol.htm
This year, my resolution is to uphold Philippians 2:3, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves." Rather than focusing on my own vanity (my weight) and ambition (our finances), I want to build closer relationships with my husband, my family, my friends, and my Savior. Philippians 2:1-8 says:
1 Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2 then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. 3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:
6 Who, being in very nature[a] God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
7 rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature[b] of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
8 And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
by becoming obedient to death—
even death on a cross!
What are your resolutions for 2012? Are they focused on you or on others? Remember what resolutions are most important: keep our eyes on "things that are nobler," draw closer to Jesus, "heed what He sayeth, do what He willeth" to abide in His kingdom day by day.
I AM RESOLVED
I am resolved no longer to linger,
Charmed by the world’s delight,
Things that are higher, things that are nobler,
These have allured my sight.
I am resolved to go to the Savior,
Leaving my sin and strife;
He is the true One, He is the just One,
He hath the words of life.
Leaving my sin and strife;
He is the true One, He is the just One,
He hath the words of life.
Faithful and true each day;
Heed what He sayeth, do what He willeth,
He is the living Way.
Leaving the paths of sin;
Friends may oppose me, foes may beset me,
Still will I enter in.
Come, friends, without delay,
Taught by the Bible, led by the Spirit,
We’ll walk the heav’nly way.
I will hasten to Him, hasten so glad and free;
Jesus, greatest, highest, I will come to Thee.
I will hasten, hasten to Him, hasten so glad and free;
Jesus, Jesus, greatest, highest, I will come to Thee.
Jesus, greatest, highest, I will come to Thee.
I will hasten, hasten to Him, hasten so glad and free;
Jesus, Jesus, greatest, highest, I will come to Thee.
http://www.cyberhymnal.org/htm/i/a/iamresol.htm
Lord, Make Me Uncomfortable
The following quote is one of my favorites because I feel it is so true. When people become too comfortable, we stop moving forward. We slip into routines, and sometimes God has to force us out of those routines just to get our attention. Psychiatrist M. Scott Peck said, "The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." I firmly believe that God uses our discomfort and our unhappiness to mold us into better people. With this in mind as I sat down to write my devotion today, this poem formed instead. I hope you enjoy it.
Lord, Make Me Uncomfortable
Lord, make me uncomfortable with my daily routine
So I'll follow your steps wherever they lead.
Make me uncomfortable as I'm cooking dinner
So I'll remember the sheep you want me to feed.
Make my recliner less comfortable for sitting
So I'll spend more time moving and less as a slouch.
Doing your will and reaching the lost
Can hardly be done with a remote from the couch.
Make me uncomfortable when I'm in the presence
Of ungodly things of which you disapprove.
Make me uncomfortable keeping my mouth shut
When Your Spirit through me is trying to move.
Make my plans hazy and my dreams disappear
If you have different goals planned for me.
Break my heart, my body, and soul,
If that's how I will better serve Thee.
Lord, Make Me Uncomfortable
Lord, make me uncomfortable with my daily routine
So I'll follow your steps wherever they lead.
Make me uncomfortable as I'm cooking dinner
So I'll remember the sheep you want me to feed.
Make my recliner less comfortable for sitting
So I'll spend more time moving and less as a slouch.
Doing your will and reaching the lost
Can hardly be done with a remote from the couch.
Make me uncomfortable when I'm in the presence
Of ungodly things of which you disapprove.
Make me uncomfortable keeping my mouth shut
When Your Spirit through me is trying to move.
Make my plans hazy and my dreams disappear
If you have different goals planned for me.
Break my heart, my body, and soul,
If that's how I will better serve Thee.
Doing the Laundry
As I type this morning, out of the corner of my eye I can see the overflowing basket of clothes that need to be folded and put away. It's very distracting for many reasons. First, I know that the majority of the clothes in that basket will need to be fluffed - or ironed, ugh - because they weren't hung up immediately out of the dryer. Second, I also know there is a load of towels in the dryer waiting to be taken out. Third, there are still dirty clothes in the hamper.
Part of me feels I should drop everything and take care of the laundry right now, while another part says that we have plenty of clean clothes to wear and the hamper will have dirty clothes again by the end of the day, so why the rush? You probably have these little voices in your head, too! So, which one wins?
It really doesn't matter. Laundry is just laundry! It isn't a big deal. A pile of dirty laundry to be washed and a pile of clean clothes to be folded simply means that you are blessed with plenty of clothes to keep you warm, electricity and water to run your washing machine, and a full life to keep you busy. When was the last time you told God you were thankful for those simple luxuries? Do you even realize that clothes and electricity are luxuries or that life is a blessing in itself?
Today, I want to thank God that I have laundry to do, that I have a husband who cares enough about our life together that he dirties up a set of clothes at work every day and another set every afternoon working in our yard, that I have a washer and dryer and don't have to wash my clothes by hand (I do occasionally still hang clothes out to dry, just to be frugal), that my sink is full of dishes because I've been cooking for my family Christmas gathering, and that my dishwasher works :-)
Part of me feels I should drop everything and take care of the laundry right now, while another part says that we have plenty of clean clothes to wear and the hamper will have dirty clothes again by the end of the day, so why the rush? You probably have these little voices in your head, too! So, which one wins?
It really doesn't matter. Laundry is just laundry! It isn't a big deal. A pile of dirty laundry to be washed and a pile of clean clothes to be folded simply means that you are blessed with plenty of clothes to keep you warm, electricity and water to run your washing machine, and a full life to keep you busy. When was the last time you told God you were thankful for those simple luxuries? Do you even realize that clothes and electricity are luxuries or that life is a blessing in itself?
Today, I want to thank God that I have laundry to do, that I have a husband who cares enough about our life together that he dirties up a set of clothes at work every day and another set every afternoon working in our yard, that I have a washer and dryer and don't have to wash my clothes by hand (I do occasionally still hang clothes out to dry, just to be frugal), that my sink is full of dishes because I've been cooking for my family Christmas gathering, and that my dishwasher works :-)
Time Well Spent
Today, as I wasted much of my morning browsing the internet and asking my Facebook friends for cute, simple finger food recipes to take to my family Christmas tomorrow, I started thinking about how much time I spend searching the Internet for ideas and advice. I’m not saying spending time on the Internet is bad. In fact, my cute veggie Christmas wreath, cranberry spread, and festive fudge (I’ll try to remember to post pictures tomorrow) will hopefully prove its usefulness! I’m just pointing out the ways we choose to spend our time.
Ever heard of Pinterest?? Well, I am slightly addicted. If I spent half as much time reading the Bible as I do on Pinterest and half as much time seeing what God has posted in His Word rather than what random friends have posted on their Facebook walls, how different would my life be?
Think of your daily routine: pack lunches for the kids, make the bed, fold the laundry, wash the dishes, go to work, buy groceries, pump gas, cook supper, lay out clothes for the next day, watch TV, surf the Internet, respond to emails, talk to your mom on the phone, text your spouse, spend time with your family, feed the dogs, steal a minute or two of quiet time to read a book – there isn’t a lot of free time. With Christmas just a few days away, you can probably add baking cookies, hanging decorations, shopping, wrapping gifts, and going to holiday parties to your to-do list.
What part of your day is set aside for your relationship with your Savior? Furthermore, what part of your holiday is set aside to actually celebrate your Savior’s birth? I hope we all make time for Him every day, especially during the hustle and bustle of the holiday chaos, so we can enjoy the benefits of a close relationship with the One who loves us beyond measure.
Still No Room
This article is from The Christian Woman, written by Joanne Lowe in December 2004. I thought it was worth sharing. I really like this website and have added it to my list of daily must-reads.
http://www.thechristianwoman.com/devotions/still-no-room.html
http://www.thechristianwoman.com/devotions/still-no-room.html
A Pain in the Neck
All my life, I've heard the phrase "pain in my neck" used to describe some irritating aspect of daily life. Often, that phrase is used to describe a person- a boss who seems to have unreasonable expectations, a teacher who assigns a lot of homework, a neighbor who complains about everything, a pet who tears up anything in sight, a police officer who gave you a speeding ticket, a cashier at Wal-Mart who is slow or rude, a co-worker who doesn't pull his/her own weight.
I wonder how often I've been a pain in someone else's neck. I'm sure my parents have suffered many headaches on my account, but I wonder what other people have considered me a pain at some point. Do people smile when I walk in a room or when I walk out? I've been reading Proverbs lately, and this verse stood out to me:
Proverbs 12:25 states,
25 Anxiety weighs down the heart,
but a kind word cheers it up.
So I have two questions for you:
1. Which one are you: the anxiety - the pain in the neck - that brings someone down or the kind word that cheers someone up? If you're the pain in the neck for someone today, pray that God will help you become the opposite. Be a builder-upper, not a bringer-downer :-)
2. What/who is your "pain in the neck"? Perhaps the person who causes you grief just needs a "kind word" from you, or perhaps the tension in your life has built up over time and you can't seem to shake the hurt. Whatever the situation, turn it over to God. He can help you deal with the "headaches" in your life so you can fulfill the purpose He has planned for you. His love is the best pain medicine I know.
I wonder how often I've been a pain in someone else's neck. I'm sure my parents have suffered many headaches on my account, but I wonder what other people have considered me a pain at some point. Do people smile when I walk in a room or when I walk out? I've been reading Proverbs lately, and this verse stood out to me:
Proverbs 12:25 states,
25 Anxiety weighs down the heart,
but a kind word cheers it up.
So I have two questions for you:
1. Which one are you: the anxiety - the pain in the neck - that brings someone down or the kind word that cheers someone up? If you're the pain in the neck for someone today, pray that God will help you become the opposite. Be a builder-upper, not a bringer-downer :-)
2. What/who is your "pain in the neck"? Perhaps the person who causes you grief just needs a "kind word" from you, or perhaps the tension in your life has built up over time and you can't seem to shake the hurt. Whatever the situation, turn it over to God. He can help you deal with the "headaches" in your life so you can fulfill the purpose He has planned for you. His love is the best pain medicine I know.
Unwrap Your Gift
This past Saturday, I was blessed to spend the day with my mama, grandma, and aunt doing what guys would say women do best: shopping!!! As we searched for gifts for the entire extended family, I was overwhelmed with gratitude to just have a day in the presence of these wonderful women who have supported me throughout the years. Spending the day with them is greater than any gift they could give me to unwrap this year.
Our shopping expedition for Christmas presents followed by watching my brother show off his amazing talent with his university choral group got me thinking about the different types of gifts. I am not a Biblical scholar, nor do I have any special wisdom to impart to the world. However, the Lord has gifted me with a way with words, an understanding of how to relate HIS wisdom to today's believers. I may not be capable of great things, but I know He can do amazing things through me if I continue to use my gift for His purpose.
What is your gift? What talent has God given specifically to you? Romans 12:4-6 says, "Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given us." Some gifts are obvious, like my little brother's voice. He's an amazing singer, and there is no question that his voice is a gift from God. Other talents aren't as obvious, but are just as important, such as the gift of encouragement. I have people in my life who are blessings simply because they care about me, call just to see how I'm doing, and offer an uplifting word when I'm down. Your gift will be revealed to you when you are pursuing your relationship with Christ. You can't always figure it out on your own (believe me, I've tried). Ask God how He wants to use you... and listen for His answer.
Now, here's an important question: Have you opened your gift or is it still sitting under the tree wrapped with a pretty bow because you're too busy? When I am struggling between teaching, grading papers, cleaning house, cooking, and running errands, I often feel pressed to find time to sit down at a computer to write. However, what is more important than doing what God wants me to do? Washing dishes????? Definitely not. Look for ways to use the talent God has given you and make them part of your daily routine. If your gift is encouragement, make time each day to call a family member or friend. If your gift is song, sing every chance you get.
God has blessed you beyond your comprehension by giving you not only eternal life but also a purpose in this world. You have been blessed with a gift He designed specifically for you to use for His glory. How are you using your gift?
Our shopping expedition for Christmas presents followed by watching my brother show off his amazing talent with his university choral group got me thinking about the different types of gifts. I am not a Biblical scholar, nor do I have any special wisdom to impart to the world. However, the Lord has gifted me with a way with words, an understanding of how to relate HIS wisdom to today's believers. I may not be capable of great things, but I know He can do amazing things through me if I continue to use my gift for His purpose.
What is your gift? What talent has God given specifically to you? Romans 12:4-6 says, "Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given us." Some gifts are obvious, like my little brother's voice. He's an amazing singer, and there is no question that his voice is a gift from God. Other talents aren't as obvious, but are just as important, such as the gift of encouragement. I have people in my life who are blessings simply because they care about me, call just to see how I'm doing, and offer an uplifting word when I'm down. Your gift will be revealed to you when you are pursuing your relationship with Christ. You can't always figure it out on your own (believe me, I've tried). Ask God how He wants to use you... and listen for His answer.
Now, here's an important question: Have you opened your gift or is it still sitting under the tree wrapped with a pretty bow because you're too busy? When I am struggling between teaching, grading papers, cleaning house, cooking, and running errands, I often feel pressed to find time to sit down at a computer to write. However, what is more important than doing what God wants me to do? Washing dishes????? Definitely not. Look for ways to use the talent God has given you and make them part of your daily routine. If your gift is encouragement, make time each day to call a family member or friend. If your gift is song, sing every chance you get.
God has blessed you beyond your comprehension by giving you not only eternal life but also a purpose in this world. You have been blessed with a gift He designed specifically for you to use for His glory. How are you using your gift?
We Are So Blessed
Sunday morning, as I went about my routine of cleaning house while I got ready for church, I kept humming the tune to "We Are So Blessed." Before long, I was outright singing as loudly as I could, like I was in the shower putting on a concert. I haven't heard this song in years, so I kept jumbling the words and mixing lines from the verses into the chorus and vice versa, but it didn't matter. This song is very special to me because I remember singing it with my daddy when I was young (his voice is what I hear in my head when I'm humming it to myself). I was still humming as I drove to church. When the offertory hymn was played, I smiled and started humming again, this time with the organist as she softly played this song. Do you ever have one of those moments when you suddenly feel God's presence in the smallest details of life? That's what this moment was for me.
Why that song had popped into my head that morning had never crossed my mind; however, as the organ played, I knew God had instilled"We Are So Blessed" into my morning to remind me just how fortunate I am to have such a wonderful life!! I have a husband who would move mountains to make me happy, parents who love me unconditionally and have always shown me that love, one set of grandparents still living who live close enough that I can visit and spend as much time with them as possible, a job that is closer to my dream job than I ever imagined I'd actually find, a home that makes me smile just imagining new ways to decorate it for each holiday season, a view from my porch that sometimes brings tears to my eyes because I feel so close to nature and can bask in the beauty of God's creation, puppy dogs who shake with excitement as they try to jump into the driver's side of my SUV when I get home from work every day, and so much more I can't possibly list it all. Yet most of all, I have a Father who loves me, who has forgiven me time and time again, who had a plan for me even when I wouldn't listen and tried to make my own path, who carried me when I couldn't walk on my own. I recently hung the "Footprints" poem above my bed to remind me of that last blessing: when I need Him most, He will carry me through. Whatever the trial, whatever the hardship, whatever the stress, whatever the pain, He will carry me through. How blessed I am to be a child of God!!! Like the song says, I just can't find a way or the words that can say thank you, Lord, for Your touch. Take it all everything. Lord, I love you so much.
We Are So Blessed
"We are so blessed, by the gifts from Your hand
We just can't understand why You loved us so much.
We are so blessed, we just can't find a way or the words that can say
Thank You, Lord, for Your touch.
CHORUS:
When we're empty You fill us 'til we overflow
When we're hungry You feed us, and cause us to know.
We are so blessed, take what we have to bring,
Take it all, everything, Lord, we love you so much.
We are so blessed by the things You have done,
The victories we've won and what You've brought us through.
We are so blessed, take what we have to bring, Take it all everything,
Lord, we bring it to You."
Why that song had popped into my head that morning had never crossed my mind; however, as the organ played, I knew God had instilled"We Are So Blessed" into my morning to remind me just how fortunate I am to have such a wonderful life!! I have a husband who would move mountains to make me happy, parents who love me unconditionally and have always shown me that love, one set of grandparents still living who live close enough that I can visit and spend as much time with them as possible, a job that is closer to my dream job than I ever imagined I'd actually find, a home that makes me smile just imagining new ways to decorate it for each holiday season, a view from my porch that sometimes brings tears to my eyes because I feel so close to nature and can bask in the beauty of God's creation, puppy dogs who shake with excitement as they try to jump into the driver's side of my SUV when I get home from work every day, and so much more I can't possibly list it all. Yet most of all, I have a Father who loves me, who has forgiven me time and time again, who had a plan for me even when I wouldn't listen and tried to make my own path, who carried me when I couldn't walk on my own. I recently hung the "Footprints" poem above my bed to remind me of that last blessing: when I need Him most, He will carry me through. Whatever the trial, whatever the hardship, whatever the stress, whatever the pain, He will carry me through. How blessed I am to be a child of God!!! Like the song says, I just can't find a way or the words that can say thank you, Lord, for Your touch. Take it all everything. Lord, I love you so much.
We Are So Blessed
"We are so blessed, by the gifts from Your hand
We just can't understand why You loved us so much.
We are so blessed, we just can't find a way or the words that can say
Thank You, Lord, for Your touch.
CHORUS:
When we're empty You fill us 'til we overflow
When we're hungry You feed us, and cause us to know.
We are so blessed, take what we have to bring,
Take it all, everything, Lord, we love you so much.
We are so blessed by the things You have done,
The victories we've won and what You've brought us through.
We are so blessed, take what we have to bring, Take it all everything,
Lord, we bring it to You."
Thankful God Is in Control
Today, I am thankful for my "little" brother. When I think of how special my brother is to me and how I'd hurt if anything ever happened to him, I think of the story of Lazarus and his sisters Mary and Martha. Mary and Martha both loved their brother dearly, and they knew that Jesus was the only one who could heal Lazarus when he fell ill. When Lazarus died, their hearts were crushed; yet, when Martha ran out to meet Jesus as he finally arrived, her faith in Him did not waiver. In John 11:21-22, Martha says to Jesus, "Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died. But I know that even now God will give you whatever you ask."
Martha knew that God was in control of the situation, that He knew the pain she felt and He had a bigger plan than she could see. I want to be like Martha in the face of tragedy. I want to completely trust God no matter how much I hurt, no matter how bleak the circumstances. In Psalm 30: 4, 11-12, we read, "Weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning... You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy, that my heart may sing to you and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give you thanks forever."
Today, a tornado swept through the mobile home park where my brother lives. I saw the tornado warning online as I was checking the weather and immediately called to make sure he was in a safe place. He was, thank goodness. Fortunately, the damage should be repairable. Other homes weren't so lucky. My brother found a friend to come pick him up on campus and take him home, where he found a tree lying on his house and his car damaged in the street. The house across the road had a tree go completely through it, as did others. Thank goodness this storm hit during the day when all of the residents - college students - were in class! I just keep thinking, "If this had happened yesterday or tomorrow, he'd have been at home." But it was today and he wasn't home, and I'm so thankful.
I don't know what I'd do if anything ever happened to him. I miss him a lot because he's off at college, and I wish all the time that I could see him more often. Today I have been forced to realize that he's all grown up and can take care of himself, a fact about which I'm not sure how I feel. My brother is the most laid-back person I know, and I admire him for so many reasons. He stands out from the crowd because he does what is right, even when it means being left out of the "fun" and being treated differently. He chooses to live for Jesus, which I know has been difficult in college since so few of his peers choose the same path. He is the most talented person I know, and that isn't just my sibling prejudice talking either. He really is an amazing singer and pianist, and I want to tell him how special he is every chance I get so he never doubts his potential to do great things.
Martha knew that God was in control of the situation, that He knew the pain she felt and He had a bigger plan than she could see. I want to be like Martha in the face of tragedy. I want to completely trust God no matter how much I hurt, no matter how bleak the circumstances. In Psalm 30: 4, 11-12, we read, "Weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning... You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy, that my heart may sing to you and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give you thanks forever."
Today, a tornado swept through the mobile home park where my brother lives. I saw the tornado warning online as I was checking the weather and immediately called to make sure he was in a safe place. He was, thank goodness. Fortunately, the damage should be repairable. Other homes weren't so lucky. My brother found a friend to come pick him up on campus and take him home, where he found a tree lying on his house and his car damaged in the street. The house across the road had a tree go completely through it, as did others. Thank goodness this storm hit during the day when all of the residents - college students - were in class! I just keep thinking, "If this had happened yesterday or tomorrow, he'd have been at home." But it was today and he wasn't home, and I'm so thankful.
I don't know what I'd do if anything ever happened to him. I miss him a lot because he's off at college, and I wish all the time that I could see him more often. Today I have been forced to realize that he's all grown up and can take care of himself, a fact about which I'm not sure how I feel. My brother is the most laid-back person I know, and I admire him for so many reasons. He stands out from the crowd because he does what is right, even when it means being left out of the "fun" and being treated differently. He chooses to live for Jesus, which I know has been difficult in college since so few of his peers choose the same path. He is the most talented person I know, and that isn't just my sibling prejudice talking either. He really is an amazing singer and pianist, and I want to tell him how special he is every chance I get so he never doubts his potential to do great things.
The Blessing of Rescuing a Pet
Oh my sweet Lizzy. That first month with a little dog in the house - one with a nervous bladder because she had been mistreated - was not a good month to say the least. Aaron was gone the whole month training to deploy, which made tensions high. Learning to be completely responsible for another living being was difficult for me... especially when I found myself scrubbing carpet more often than not. I almost changed my mind about that little dog in the beginning, but by the end of the month, her company was something on which I relied.
I can't imagine going through Aaron's deployment without Lizzy's companionship. That nervous little dog has completely stolen my heart :-) In fact, everybody loves her! My grandmother even scolded Aaron for coming to visit without bringing her granddaughter... and she was talking about Lizzy, not me!! My mama keeps a bowl ready for when Lizzy comes to over, and my daddy can't wait for her to jump into his lap. Her daddy spoils her the most, though. There is something so cute about how they both fall asleep in his chair.
We have adopted three other abandoned dogs, and each new pet comes with challenges. One ate out of the trash can for a while and was scared of everyone, one likes to roam too much, and one chews up everything! However, I highly recommend to everyone to adopt a pet. Take the time to nurture your pet and teach them how to behave, and you will reap the rewards of a loving companion. My scared trash-eater is now loving and gentle to adults (he's still terrified of kids), my wanderer loves curling up on her chair and getting her picture made, and my chewer (who still chews, but I've just taken away anything she can damage) is the sweetest puppy who just craves loving attention.
I am so thankful for my pets.
I can't imagine going through Aaron's deployment without Lizzy's companionship. That nervous little dog has completely stolen my heart :-) In fact, everybody loves her! My grandmother even scolded Aaron for coming to visit without bringing her granddaughter... and she was talking about Lizzy, not me!! My mama keeps a bowl ready for when Lizzy comes to over, and my daddy can't wait for her to jump into his lap. Her daddy spoils her the most, though. There is something so cute about how they both fall asleep in his chair.
We have adopted three other abandoned dogs, and each new pet comes with challenges. One ate out of the trash can for a while and was scared of everyone, one likes to roam too much, and one chews up everything! However, I highly recommend to everyone to adopt a pet. Take the time to nurture your pet and teach them how to behave, and you will reap the rewards of a loving companion. My scared trash-eater is now loving and gentle to adults (he's still terrified of kids), my wanderer loves curling up on her chair and getting her picture made, and my chewer (who still chews, but I've just taken away anything she can damage) is the sweetest puppy who just craves loving attention.
I am so thankful for my pets.
The Blessing of an Active Father
In today's society, so many children are growing up without a good father figure. As children of God, we have a wonderful Father who loves us unconditionally and is always by our side. Fortunately, I also have a wonderful earthly father. My daddy not only taught me to shoot a jumpshot and dribble left handed, but he also went to every one of my basketball games for 6 years- JV and Varsity. He understands me more than most dads would, he listens when I need a helpful ear, and he tells me I'm beautiful like I am still five years old in pigtails.
Most of all, I am thankful my daddy is a man who stands out in this society. 1 John 3:18 says, "Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth." My daddy has practiced this verse my whole life. He has always stood up for Jesus and lived the way Jesus would want him to live, even when he was the only one. My daddy doesn't have to talk about God for people to know he's a Christian. He doesn't have to carry a Bible around and read scripture for those around him to know he is different and respect him for it. He doesn't have to tell them how to live like Jesus... He shows them. Sometimes, my daddy's faithfulness means he gets left out of worldly "fun." Some people are uncomfortable around him because he doesn't drink, smoke, or carry on. His faithfulness, whether these people realize it or not, makes them conscious of the fact that God would not approve of their actions.
Matthew 5: 14-16 says, "You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven."
I am so thankful for my daddy. I love him so much!
Most of all, I am thankful my daddy is a man who stands out in this society. 1 John 3:18 says, "Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth." My daddy has practiced this verse my whole life. He has always stood up for Jesus and lived the way Jesus would want him to live, even when he was the only one. My daddy doesn't have to talk about God for people to know he's a Christian. He doesn't have to carry a Bible around and read scripture for those around him to know he is different and respect him for it. He doesn't have to tell them how to live like Jesus... He shows them. Sometimes, my daddy's faithfulness means he gets left out of worldly "fun." Some people are uncomfortable around him because he doesn't drink, smoke, or carry on. His faithfulness, whether these people realize it or not, makes them conscious of the fact that God would not approve of their actions.
Matthew 5: 14-16 says, "You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven."
I am so thankful for my daddy. I love him so much!
The Blessing of a Mom and Friend
For years, I've turned to my mama when things were going wrong. I always knew that she'd be there for me no matter what because she was my mom. She's been there for me every day of my life, a steadfast rock. Sometimes, her constant presence and love has made me neglect to think that not everyone has what I have. Not everyone has a caring mother to whom he or she can turn. Not everyone has memories of family dinners, even if it's just pizza or chicken fingers and mac-n-cheese, especially not family dinners several times a week. Not everyone remembers a clean house - except my room, of course - and clean clothes every day. Not everyone has a mom who stays up at midnight to wash a basketball or cheerleading uniform that needs to be clean for the next day like mine did time and time again, for which I never even said, "Thank you." How ungrateful I was as a teenager, complaining that my mom was in my business and telling me to clean my room, when other teens would have given everything for a mom at all, especially one who cares about their happiness and well-being.
My blessing goes even further. My mama is my friend, and I wish so badly to be there for her when she needs me just like she has always done for me. She deserves that and so much more. I hope the day never comes when she needs me to take care of her daily because I know she wouldn't want that, but I would happily be there and do whatever she needed. After all that I've put her through, I know I wouldn't be here without her dropping everything and running to my rescue. I love you, Mama. I hope you know that.
My blessing goes even further. My mama is my friend, and I wish so badly to be there for her when she needs me just like she has always done for me. She deserves that and so much more. I hope the day never comes when she needs me to take care of her daily because I know she wouldn't want that, but I would happily be there and do whatever she needed. After all that I've put her through, I know I wouldn't be here without her dropping everything and running to my rescue. I love you, Mama. I hope you know that.
The Blessing of a Supportive Spouse
This Thanksgiving season, I want to first give thanks for my wonderful husband. While my family is stuck with me by blood, my husband has chosen to walk with me hand in hand through the ups and downs of this journey. His love for me is so obvious (most days, anyway) that I believe one would have to be blind to not see it. Many people claim to love their spouse, but I don't believe many men show that love like my husband does. He even washes dishes and clothes occasionally!! While I am so thankful for his love, most of all I am thankful for his whole-hearted support. I've struggled since our marriage to find God's plan for me as both a wife and a career woman. When we got married, I felt that I couldn't be both. I chose to be a wife. However, I quickly realized that being a wife -- as wonderful as it is -- was not the sole purpose for which God intended me. I've struggled to figure out His plan on my own and make something fit my life, my schedule, my finances... nothing seemed to work. Through it all, my husband has supported my pursuit of whatever goal I had at the time. His wish is for me to be happy and fulfilled. How wonderful is that??? Now, as I embark on my writing career, I wonder if I would have ever had the courage to do this were it not for his support.
The following poem is one of my favorites (I just wish I'd written it!). It was printed in our wedding program because this is how I always wanted to love and be loved in return. I am so blessed to have found this type of love!!
"How do I love thee?" by Elizabeth B. Browning
"How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of every day's
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with a passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, --- I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! --- and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death."
I love you, Aaron.
The following poem is one of my favorites (I just wish I'd written it!). It was printed in our wedding program because this is how I always wanted to love and be loved in return. I am so blessed to have found this type of love!!
"How do I love thee?" by Elizabeth B. Browning
"How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of every day's
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with a passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints, --- I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life! --- and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death."
I love you, Aaron.
Made to Last Forever
In starting a new journey, one might look ahead as though today is "the first day of the rest of your life." This writer says we shouldn't do that. Instead, we should live each day as if it were our last. How different are the first day and the last day of a journey! The first day is spent making plans of where to go and how to get there, packing bags of items needed along the way, and anticipating the fun that lies ahead. The last days are ones for reflection and completion: realizing what is most important and doing that.
I want to spend my last day with my family, the people I love more than anything on this earth. I want to feel that I have done my best, that I have used what God gave me, that I focused on the important things that were made to last forever instead of building on to my house, putting in new floors, canning tomatoes, reaching my Avon sales goal, needing to lose ten pounds.
The question to consider at the end of the devotion today is this: "Since I was made to last forever, what is the one thing I should stop doing and the one thing I should start doing today?" In my Avon business, we are told to talk to at least 3 new people each day about buying or selling Avon. What if I used that Power of Three to talk about Jesus instead of makeup?
I want to spend my last day with my family, the people I love more than anything on this earth. I want to feel that I have done my best, that I have used what God gave me, that I focused on the important things that were made to last forever instead of building on to my house, putting in new floors, canning tomatoes, reaching my Avon sales goal, needing to lose ten pounds.
The question to consider at the end of the devotion today is this: "Since I was made to last forever, what is the one thing I should stop doing and the one thing I should start doing today?" In my Avon business, we are told to talk to at least 3 new people each day about buying or selling Avon. What if I used that Power of Three to talk about Jesus instead of makeup?
What Drives Your Life?
Wow, this chapter has me pegged!! It discusses some of the possible driving forces, all of which have controlled my life at some point: guilt, resentment, anger, fear, materialism, and need for approval. I've worked through those things in my life and felt pretty good as I read through those sections. But then one short paragraph, only one sentence long, really got me:
"There are other forces that can drive your life but all lead to the same dead end: unused potential, unnecessary stress, and an unfulfilled life."
That sentences sums me up. I constantly feel like I am doing nothing important with my life. Although I am very happy and really don't want to change anything, I still feel unfulfilled in some ways. But that's what this book is going to help me find: finding God's purpose for my life.
The section "Knowing your purpose simplifies your life" makes me REALLY look forward to finishing this book lol. Knowing your purpose "defines what you do and what you don't do... People who don't know their purpose try to do too much- and that causes stress, fatigue, and conflict." WOW, THAT'S ME!!! Paul said, "I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead." That's what I want to do.
The Question to Consider at the end of the chapter bothered me because I have no idea what the answer would be: "What would my family and friends say is the driving force of my life?"
"There are other forces that can drive your life but all lead to the same dead end: unused potential, unnecessary stress, and an unfulfilled life."
That sentences sums me up. I constantly feel like I am doing nothing important with my life. Although I am very happy and really don't want to change anything, I still feel unfulfilled in some ways. But that's what this book is going to help me find: finding God's purpose for my life.
The section "Knowing your purpose simplifies your life" makes me REALLY look forward to finishing this book lol. Knowing your purpose "defines what you do and what you don't do... People who don't know their purpose try to do too much- and that causes stress, fatigue, and conflict." WOW, THAT'S ME!!! Paul said, "I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead." That's what I want to do.
The Question to Consider at the end of the chapter bothered me because I have no idea what the answer would be: "What would my family and friends say is the driving force of my life?"
I Am Not an Accident
"We discover [our] meaning and purpose only when we make God the reference point of our lives."
This chapter brings up several thoughts for me.
First, I realize that God planned my birth, planned everything about it. He chose my parents, where we'd live, gave me a huge extended family... for these things I cannot be grateful enough. I don't have many friends, and this has bothered me a lot. However, most people do not have the blessing of family like I do, and I would glady take the family God chose for me over most "friends" I would choose for myself. When friends have disagreements, friendships end, but family is family forever.
Second, I am 25 years old and my husband will soon be 30. The subject of children is a common one with people our age, but we have yet to decide we are ready for that step. Watching our peers with their kids sometimes makes me feel guilty, especially when I watch my aunts and uncles with their grandchildren and my parents don't have babies to play with and spoil. My parents will make great grandparents :-) and I am thankful that I live close by for when that day does come. This chapter made me feel better because God plans births- we don't. When He gets ready for my husband and I to be parents and for my parents to be grandparents, then He will make it happen regardless of what we have planned.
Third, I want to share the last two stanzas of a poem in this chapter. 2010 was the hardest year of my life. Looking back hurts too much to do, but it is necessary sometimes just so I can see how blessed I am. I felt that I had been abandoned by God, that he didn't care about the pain I felt. However, I realize that - while I was feeling abandoned - God was working in the lives of those around me and using them to lift me up, to restore me and to restore my faith. My husband is the prime example. He came home from deployment with a love for me that I know came straight from Heaven.
"No, that trauma you faced was not easy.
And God wept that it hurt you so;
But it was allowed to shape your heart
So that into his likeness you'd grow.
You are who you are for a reason,
You've been formed by the Master's rod.
You are who you are, beloved,
Because there is a God!"
This chapter brings up several thoughts for me.
First, I realize that God planned my birth, planned everything about it. He chose my parents, where we'd live, gave me a huge extended family... for these things I cannot be grateful enough. I don't have many friends, and this has bothered me a lot. However, most people do not have the blessing of family like I do, and I would glady take the family God chose for me over most "friends" I would choose for myself. When friends have disagreements, friendships end, but family is family forever.
Second, I am 25 years old and my husband will soon be 30. The subject of children is a common one with people our age, but we have yet to decide we are ready for that step. Watching our peers with their kids sometimes makes me feel guilty, especially when I watch my aunts and uncles with their grandchildren and my parents don't have babies to play with and spoil. My parents will make great grandparents :-) and I am thankful that I live close by for when that day does come. This chapter made me feel better because God plans births- we don't. When He gets ready for my husband and I to be parents and for my parents to be grandparents, then He will make it happen regardless of what we have planned.
Third, I want to share the last two stanzas of a poem in this chapter. 2010 was the hardest year of my life. Looking back hurts too much to do, but it is necessary sometimes just so I can see how blessed I am. I felt that I had been abandoned by God, that he didn't care about the pain I felt. However, I realize that - while I was feeling abandoned - God was working in the lives of those around me and using them to lift me up, to restore me and to restore my faith. My husband is the prime example. He came home from deployment with a love for me that I know came straight from Heaven.
"No, that trauma you faced was not easy.
And God wept that it hurt you so;
But it was allowed to shape your heart
So that into his likeness you'd grow.
You are who you are for a reason,
You've been formed by the Master's rod.
You are who you are, beloved,
Because there is a God!"
It All Starts With God
"The purpose of your life is far greater than your own personal fulfillment, your peace of mind, or even your happiness. It's far greater than your family, your career, or even your wildest dreams and ambitions."
That's very difficult for me. As children, we are asked what we want to be/do when we grow up. As teens, we have to start making decisions about where will will go to college and what we will study. As young adults, we go to college then start careers. Well, I got my degree, but then I decided to get married instead of using my degree, and my career plans were erased. I've spent the last months wondering what my dreams are, trying to figure out what I want to do now, where I want to go from here.
I decided to start this study because three times in the past week (and several times over the last few months)I have been approached with the issue that I will never be successful until I focus my energy on one thing. Well, I haven't been able to figure out what that one thing should be. Then, yesterday, I received the job offer for which I've been hoping! While I am very excited, I want to make sure that I am approaching this job- this life and career opportunity- with the right mentality, one focused on God's purpose for placing me in this job and what I bring to the table instead of what this job does for me.
That's very difficult for me. As children, we are asked what we want to be/do when we grow up. As teens, we have to start making decisions about where will will go to college and what we will study. As young adults, we go to college then start careers. Well, I got my degree, but then I decided to get married instead of using my degree, and my career plans were erased. I've spent the last months wondering what my dreams are, trying to figure out what I want to do now, where I want to go from here.
I decided to start this study because three times in the past week (and several times over the last few months)I have been approached with the issue that I will never be successful until I focus my energy on one thing. Well, I haven't been able to figure out what that one thing should be. Then, yesterday, I received the job offer for which I've been hoping! While I am very excited, I want to make sure that I am approaching this job- this life and career opportunity- with the right mentality, one focused on God's purpose for placing me in this job and what I bring to the table instead of what this job does for me.
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